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BREATHE OUT THE CARBONDIOXIDE

LEARN TO BREATHE Whatever tomorrow brings I’ll still be alive and kicking, breathing and learning to understand the swiveling propensity of the wind. Only God can explain to me the pros and cons of my own story, the more people try to get close to me there’s always a sudden decline in the predilection of our proximity so I just reveal to them what they want to see. There is always exaggeration in every form of perfection and an element of truth in every awkward statement. Whatever beautiful thing tomorrow brings, I hope it last and I am alive to grasp it. I hope I have the effrontery to preserve it and cherish it for the rest of my existence, this is me this is my life, I cry a lot with a smile on my slim face especially when I walk under the rain; a times I just want to breathe and perceive the beauty of the wind but then I sneeze only to miss the comportment of the breeze. I want to know what it really means to be alive and feel internal peace, you know to feel accompli...

It's time to LET GO!!!

Among the many reasons why majority find it hard to let go of things or people that no longer serve them is because of our associations and level of permissiveness. Too many times, we care about what other people think of us, we crave for approval from others so much and that is debilitating. We are so good in allowing others control our happiness. We are being tough on ourselves, on mistakes we have made and allowing the opinion of others to count in our lives. I have also learnt that one of the hardest decisions you have to make is limiting your association with negative influence. But it's also important you ask yourself; **Are they helping you or pushing you in the direction of your dreams?** Well,youu don't have to necessarily dissociate yourself from them, however you can gradually spend less time with them. ************************************* If you need the approval of other people in other to be successful in life, then, ENTREPRENEURSHIP is not for you. *****...

BE HER ICON

Brothers, before you go marry an energetic, enterprising or a vision driven lady, abeg crosscheck your ego to find out if your woman’s potential success in the near future will make you feel inferior or intimidated. No go marry lady wey get fire to succeed pass you only to wake up one morning feeling her drive is way more than you can bear. It’s annoying hearing stories of men who dread their wife’s success. Men who feel demean at the very sighting of their wife’s potential to succeed above them. Just heard of a guy who stopped his wife from writing a professional exam. Because he believes if she passes that exam, her promotion at work will make her less resourceful as a wife and mother. How????? It’s not a sign of masculinity to kill your woman’s dream ooo. Naaa!. It’s a show of insecurity. Serious insecurity. Not all women who succeed disrespect and under value their husbands. Cause that the direction most men tread this days. And Bros...

The Final Year Brethren

FYB - A MERE ACRONYM?? The acronym FYB might only mean FINAL YEAR BRETHREN, it might mean you're no longer offering those 301,204,107 et al but it has more meanings than how it's being viewed. I remembered vividly when I was in 100 level then, I used to presume those guys in 400/500 level knows everything in their field of learning, I used to believe they have answers to every questions thrown at them(not just class questions in this case) but I've grown to discover "schooling is different from education" I've discovered "schooling will only make you to be a literate and not educated" Yes, FYB should mean you're educated, it means you now have the experience, it means posterity should see you as a mentor, it means you know something tangible in your field of study, it means you're a solution to people's problems, and it finally mean you're ready to stand alone in the outside world, FYB is a responsibility and not an appellation, the...

LOVE AND PEACE

Hello everybody, I wish you well. Love and peace I bring to you, happiness and joy I humbly unveil before thee, in your presence I have opened a bottle of cheery and opulence. You deserve gladness and satisfaction, every man and living human ought to know the essence and value of peace. I don’t need an in-depth knowledge of you or your history to see you put a broad smile across your face and live a sublime life beyond the malady of our given society. Love and peace every soldier deserves. This year is going to be sensational, every minute would certainly help to define the singularity of our existence and primary essence of our cultural plurality, love and peace every child ought to experience in the home, love and peace the citizens of a nation should enjoy without threshold and detriments. 2018 isn’t a year for rehearsal; this is a period for apt execution of a coherent lifestyle while the camera keeps rolling, this is a time for supernatural progression there is no re...

BE SUBMISSIVE

It is time for our young ladies to know that when a man is ready to marry,he will not look out for a woman who will  satisfy his sex drive but a woman with visions and submissive attribute. Excuse my language. ....."Every woman has vagina but not every woman has humility". Sadly, many young ladies in our days(I was part of it)call submission as control,I had this believe that we're equal, we both have a say....I should be able to impose whatever decision I make, I just wanted to be above not anywhere below him,I just want to act like"yea,I am a graduate,you can't just tell me shits, I spent so many years in the university&and a man wants to tell me what not to do or say".Yea,I was like that, Have gat this EGO in me, I just don't want to submit, with the romantic tone of.....I don't want any man to control me o, why I go school nah? (Smiling) Most ladies are like that,but I think it's high time we learnt that if you don't want to submit...

YOUR APPRECIATION MATTERS!

The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen. -Elisabeth Kübler-Ross- _ You know how it is women (Females)  get insecure about their body and how it affects their mood?  Well, it's normal. Women are wired with tons of emotion network that men fail or hardly get to understand. . Do I look fat? Am I adding weight? Is my hair looking rough? Do you think I look beautiful? Do you still love me? . This questions may come off a bit annoying to men as we assume we are being invaded  and blamed but that's not even the case. . women like to be assured that they are still seen. Adored. it's what drives them. It's that special ingredient that makes women wake up i...