BE HER ICON

Brothers, before you go marry an energetic, enterprising or a vision driven lady, abeg crosscheck your ego to find out if your woman’s potential success in the near future will make you feel inferior or intimidated. No go marry lady wey get fire to succeed pass you only to wake up one morning feeling her drive is way more than you can bear.

It’s annoying hearing stories of men who dread their wife’s success. Men who feel demean at the very sighting of their wife’s potential to succeed above them.

Just heard of a guy who stopped his wife from writing a professional exam. Because he believes if she passes that exam, her promotion at work will make her less resourceful as a wife and mother. How?????

It’s not a sign of masculinity to kill your woman’s dream ooo. Naaa!. It’s a show of insecurity. Serious insecurity.

Not all women who succeed disrespect and under value their husbands. Cause that the direction most men tread this days.

And Bros…even if your wife succeeds, her shine isn’t at the detriment of your own shining now abi. So why the fear!!! And beside isn’t it true love between you two????

Real men ensure their wife’s shine at all cost. They push their woman to do more and become more. Men wey go force you to write that exam, start that business. Not men that will hold you back. Even if you want be a house wife, a real man will ensure you’re not idle…

If you are a married man and your wife is constantly walking behind you….HIDE YOUR FACE. The beauty of every man is his wife. People should see your success in your wife’s success.

PS: Shout out to every husband out there who’s constantly pushing their wives to fulfill their dreams. Men who have spent our time, energy and resources just to ensure their wife’s glory is just as bright as theirs. Even brighter seff.Be her ICON!

God Bless Una Real Good…

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