Eagles

The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen. -Elisabeth Kübler-Ross- _ You know how it is women (Females)  get insecure about their body and how it affects their mood?  Well, it's normal. Women are wired with tons of emotion network that men fail or hardly get to understand. . Do I look fat? Am I adding weight? Is my hair looking rough? Do you think I look beautiful? Do you still love me? . This questions may come off a bit annoying to men as we assume we are being invaded  and blamed but that's not even the case. . women like to be assured that they are still seen. Adored. it's what drives them. It's that special ingredient that makes women wake up i...

Are you governed by irrational fears? Are you self‑centered? Are you blaming others for your problems? Are you stubbornly refusing to admit you were wrong? Are you reluctantly yielding because you have to? Are you excluding God from the events of your life? Do you rely on human schemes rather than the grace of God? Do you resort to God last, as a hope, but not in prayer? Are you stoically resigning yourself to fate? When things seem to be against you When it all seems BLACK AND BLANK 1. Put God into the equation 2. Put your situation into historical perspective 3. Put down selfish unbelieving thoughts AND 4. TRUST in the God who is for you.

They call us the Microwave generation for a reason. We are too impatient to work things out. We have friends/counsels who are quick to advice us to get up and leave if things don't go our way. She cheated on me, so i'm out (I can't take rubbish). He does not love me like before - so i'm out (there must be someone better out there). He does not consider me as equal, so I'm out (What do you consider as equal, maybe we are watching too many western TV). She does not look as beautiful as she was when I married her, so i'm out(ermmm, oga, madam has offloaded 3 children and is expecting number 4 next month). She does not know how to cook my favorite egusi soup, so I looked for alternatives (Please sir, I'm aware that men can cook too - the best chefs are actually men). All these are just excuses. Stories that touch the heart. We need a bit more commitment in marriage. Not only when things are better, but when it is worse. Commitment is the willingness to do WHA...

Fill up your brain daily, Study my man, get knowledge Desire insight my woman, be thoughtful. Imbibe something sublime into your head, Leave it opaque and it’s at your own peril, The brain is in dire need of words of life. It wants to be breathe aid it with oxygen, Don’t be a societal fool, use your mental tool, Think man think, let the ideas flow in rivulet manner. The brain is yours, same with the glory and gore, The function of the brain can never be exhausted, Endorse it today tomorrow it might put you to shame. Activate the brain; someday you’ll be thankful you ignited it.

The question is do you respect your man enough? Is your respect based on what he is doing for you now? Is the respect only there when he has enough money and can provide for you? if he didnt have a job or earn enough money, will we respect him still? For most of us ladies, we believe that a man should earn his respect.We tend to respect him more when he has a job, pays the bills and do all the manly stuff a man should do. On the contrary men believe they should be respected based on who they are not what they do for you. Even God knew that the key to unlocking the potential in a man is to treat that man with unconditional respect, loooong before he deserves it. Give a man his respect, he will know you 'love' him and you will live a very long life in your marriage. If they don’t feel respected, they can’t survive (emotionally). That is why it is so important for a woman to learn to give her man UNCONDITIONAL respect. If a woman will learn to respect her husband even when...