SOME RESPECT WON'T KILL

The question is do you respect your man enough? Is your respect based on what he is doing for you now? Is the respect only there when he has enough money and can provide for you? if he didnt have a job or earn enough money, will we respect him still?

For most of us ladies, we believe that a man should earn his respect.We tend to respect him more when he has a job, pays the bills and do all the manly stuff a man should do. On the contrary men believe they should be respected based on who they are not what they do for you.

Even God knew that the key to unlocking the potential in a man is to treat that man with unconditional respect, loooong before he deserves it.

Give a man his respect, he will know you 'love' him and you will live a very long life in your marriage.
If they don’t feel respected, they can’t survive (emotionally). That is why it is so important for a woman to learn to give her man UNCONDITIONAL respect.

If a woman will learn to respect her husband even when he is not 'perfect', even when he does not
'deserve' it, he will open his heart to her and will find it easy to change because he trusts her. A man needs respect to feel safe enough to open up.

GIVE HIM SOME RESPECT!

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