JUST LEAVE

Cheating is the most disgusting,hurting and disrespectful thing you can do to a woman who had built her whole around you.It changes the way she feels about men,love, marriage and sometimes God.It is a deep pain that rots her soul from the inside out.

If you're unhappy, can you just LEAVE. .....With time, she'd move on happily knowing you wanted the best for her
You can walk out from a relationship without the duo being bittered about it........Just talk about it, make yourselves see reasons why you both shouldn't go on.

Relationships are all about replacements. At every point in time, we are replacing people and things that take our time with other people and things. It's neither right nor wrong, it's a human thing.

So, it's either you are being replaced by someone or something or you are being used to replace someone or something. Either way, don't read too much into it. Just go with the flow.

Don't attach yourself to anyone or anything because just as they used you as a replacement, they can just as readily replace you.

In summary, don't get attached to people or things. They are either using you as a replacement or replacing you and you don't even know it. I'm a free agent. I go with the flow. I enjoy being used as a replacement because it's an opportunity to add to someone's experience so I make the most of it. I also enjoy being replaced because it implies that I'm free to share experiences with someone else. Be like me...

I've been replaced by new best friends, new favorite teachers, new crushes and new boyfriends. You can replace me, but you can never delete nor replicate the experiences I gave you. There can never be another ME.

Yes, it's painful to be replaced,let me know why you're replacing me, tell me why you can't go ahead with the relationship.....Help the next man that will come into my life,make me a better person, be straight with me.The truth hurts but cheating hurts more.

Be way too matured to cheat
Ask for Grace.

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