YOU ARE REPLACEABLE

The only bone in the body that can be replaced after being damaged is the RIBS.

Biblically,Emotionally. ....The RIBS connotes a perfect partner, a God given spouse......

People forget that even if your spouse walked down from Heaven and you fail to treat him/her right, you will be replaced because when the RIBS are damaged, they can be REPLACED.

You treat your spouse like you've gotten him/her, he/she can't go anywhere, God gave me this person and all you could think of is to neglect,abuse, never respect, never appreciative and do almost all the opposite sides of affections.

Have seen some men compare their spouse to their exes, have seen some men compare the body size or structure of their spouse with that of a lady who just walked by, have seen some men tell their spouse how much they missed their ex simply because she failed in the aspect their ex could have
handled well etc.

Have seen some women compare their spouse to the husband next door, have seen some women compare the riches of the man she was once with, have seen some women tell their spouse how much a man has cared for her etc.

But  why were you with each other if the other was so good? Do you realise no one is perfect,do you realise we are all moulded in God's own way?That body you wish your spouse had...do you know how much pain, money, energy it took that person?Do you even know so many people are out there to just be like him/her.

But why do we tend to treat people who have been good to us badly?
Why do we choose never to appreciate their little efforts?
Why do we keep hitting on our RIBS?You forgot it will grow weak some day which will eventually get damaged.
Why do we hurt people who loves us the most?

Is it that we feel they can't WALK AWAY?   
                                   Or
They can't find someone better than the way you're treating them?

Wow! If you're treating your spouse thinking with that mentality,come let me whisper this into your ears"You are simply myopic in your reasoning".

You are REPLACEABLE o.
Must we lose that important person before we know he/she was everything?
Is it hard to appreciate?
Is it hard to be contented with what you have?
Is it hard to keep praying for your spouse?

If it is hard, then let the person GO!
Look for someone you will be contented with and let him/her make his/herself available for someone who would say"This is what have been searching for".

Please, learn to appreciate the little things your spouse does
Never you compare your spouse to the being down your street
Never you make him/her feel you missed who was there before him/her.

She's too big and you want her to reduce weight, register her in a gym, exercise with her...She will get the message you're passing across.
She's too slim and you want her add some flesh. ....Get her fruits, encourage her to eat, buy her junks,stress her less. ....She will also get the message.

You want him to cut down on the pot belly, enrol him in a gym class, tease the pot belly, if he drinks, help him stop drinking etc
You want him to satisfy you on bed, teach him how,make a first move etc.

But in all, appreciate that little effort, it will prone your spouse to do more.
And in everything that you do, know you're REPLACEABLE.

If you're offended with this post. .....Know you have not been treating your spouse right.

Make amends TODAY.

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