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Worries... Worries... Worries... During our lives we all have the same type of concerns. ** We worry about the failure of our government and leaders. ** We worry about becoming unemployed ** We worry about the future of our kids ** We worry about finding a life partner ** We worry about getting an education. ** We worry about our housing. ** We worry about the health. ** We worry about the traffic ** We worry about not having "30 billion for the akkant" * And so on. TODAY, I would rather you operate from a paradigm of “motives” rather than that of “worries.” I want you （in sober reflections）to the through the motive beyond all the choices you have made in your life till now. You may start with questions like: ** Why do I do what I do? ** Why do I have the friends I have? ** What do I seek to achieve and why? ** Why do I always make the same mistake? ** Why do I take the chances I do? ** And why am I good at this? If you answer t...

THE 120 MINUTES WONDER. I have not heard any deligent person say "I have too much time for what I want to do."  There will always be something to do. Always work from a list! WHY? When something new (task, project, activity) comes up, you can add it to the list before you do it. Time management experts have proven that you can increase your productivity and output by 25% or more than -which is about 2 hours a day -  from the first day that you begin working consistently from a list. Let me share a tip with you. MAKE YOUR LIST THE NIGHT BEFORE THE WORKDAY AHEAD. When you do not achieve what you have planned earlier on your list, add it to the lost for the next day and give it a top priority. Because you have planned each day in advance on your list, your SUBCONCIOUS MIND begins work on it immediately and all night long even while you SLEEP. What a great strategy to help you approach your day with sheer optimism and enthusiasm! Did I mention that your job gets better and ...

Have you ever watched a 'blue film' (porn)? That's what it was called back then. I hear it enhance a couples sex life and once the sex is good, the marriage is also good. BIG LIE Well, out of curiosity I watched a bit of it. hmmm......I didn’t see love o. I didn’t really even see sex, not as I understood it. What I saw was violence - pounding, strangling, tearing (Lord have mercy). I think most of us would be horrified if we saw what most porn today really is. It isn’t just pictures of naked women like there used to be in Playboy; most is very violent, extremely degrading, and very ugly.This is not about beautiful ladies being caressed lovingly by men who love them, these are 18-year-old girls with fake breasts who have zero body hair being pounded like desirable pieces of willing meat. In our culture porn is treated as if it’s harmless, but it’s not. You hear people say ''oh it is a normal guy thing and everybody does it. No it is not. Some will say it i...

MENSTRUAL CYCLE AND OVULATION . Most girls don't understand this because of much heavy grammar used to teach it. Every woman has to listen to her body. Start listening to your body for these signs and confirm. 👉MENSTRUAL PERIOD:The time blood flows out of your private area, when you use pad. 👉MENSTRUAL CYCLE: Days it takes to see another blood in the month. If you last saw your period in June 11th and it started again on July 10th 2017, then you have 30days cycle (count from 11 June to 10 July). NOTE: It is erroneous to believe its 28days cycle, different women have different cycles ranging from 21-35 days. 👉OVULATION PERIOD: This is time to get pregnant without stress. This is 2 weeks after your period or 2 weeks before the next period. Here's a simple way to calculate your ovulation (unsafe) period. 1. From the first day you see the blood of your period. 2. Pick up a calendar and count 15 days including the first day of the blood stain. 3. Mark the 15th day with a...

Few people consider sickness and suffering when picking a mate.They consider how the other person might look in the morning or what bad habits they might have. They consider what offspring they could produce or what extended family they might bring to the reunion. Yet few people ever consider what is a vital question — can I suffer with this person? It sounds like the beginning of another marriage joke, but it's not. It's a real question and one which should be explored by every dating couple. Suffering is a part of life.And the older a person gets, the more we realize that suffering is not a rare occurrence, but it's a common aspect of our lives.Sorrow comes in many forms, yet it is guaranteed to come. BEWARE: Not everyone suffers well . Some live in denial — unable to confront the deep realities of life. Some live in despair — unable to recognize the convergence of laughter and tears. Few have the grace to suffer well. Those who do suffer well are a well-sp...

Riding a bicycle is all about balance.Once you learn to balance and pedal at the same time,you're able to move easily forward. A bicycle here represents how well you are balancing different aspects of life or it may be about learning to find balance in your waking life. How are you riding your bicycle? Are you riding it easily? Are you struggling to maintain your balance? Are you unable to steer properly? Are you just spinning your wheels without a destination? Or probably you've fallen off and not ready to ride any longer....? Read over and over.You'd know where you belong, if you're riding easily, don't relent, don't be proud....you might fall off and never get back up. If you're struggling to maintain a balance, still don't relent, keep struggling, one day you'd mount the bicycle and when you find yourself riding easily, remember the people who had rode easily and fell off. If you're unable to steer properly, don't give up, keep ...

Do you have a pepper spray? If NO, go and buy. If YES, always make sure it is handy. Where do you keep your security money? Security money is not only for use when you go on a date neither is it meant solely for the purpose of a visit gone wrong. Security money is a savior in all cases to avoid being stranded. Aside from the money in your purse/ bag, have a token that can transport you reasonably in your outfit, just incase you are stripped off your bag. Dress smartly always, so that when you need to run, a tight skirt or dress will not launch you to your doom. Take a taxi from a verified park, if otherwise confirm your driver via the number plate, share your ETA with someone you trust. If you are out with friends, be careful of what you eat and drink. If you intend to stay out late,  be conscious of whose company you are in, stories abound from not defining friendships. While attempting to resist your attacker, if you are not convinced of your freedom move struggling wi...