WHY WORRY?

Worries... Worries... Worries...

During our lives we all have the same type of concerns.

** We worry about the failure of our government and leaders.

** We worry about becoming unemployed

** We worry about the future of our kids

** We worry about finding a life partner

** We worry about getting an education.

** We worry about our housing.

** We worry about the health.

** We worry about the traffic

** We worry about not having "30 billion for the akkant"

* And so on.

TODAY, I would rather you operate from a paradigm of “motives” rather than that of “worries.”

I want you （in sober reflections）to the through the motive beyond all the choices you have made in your life till now.

You may start with questions like:

** Why do I do what I do?

** Why do I have the friends I have?

** What do I seek to achieve and why?

** Why do I always make the same mistake?

** Why do I take the chances I do?

** And why am I good at this?

If you answer those questions, you become AWARE of your deeper intentions. It follows that your Motivation stems from the drive for MEANING and not the drive for PLEASURE.

Can we dig further in our self investigation? Ask these questions:

~ What would make me happy?

~ What keeps me from achieving this?

~ What do I dislike about my job?

~ What have I ever developed a passionate interest in?

~ What would make a difference in my perceived quality of life?

~ What do I want to change in the world?

~ What kind of differrence would I like to have made, when I look back on my life?

~ What kind of contribution would I be proud to have of havng made?
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How do you get an answer to these questions? LISTEN TO YOUR INNER SELF

When you have clarity about your WHYs, then you will know what to DO and then HOW to DO it follows. A self esteem comes upon you, self motivation.

You become dangerous, terrific, unstoppable, unbroken, undeterred, undaunted.

Brim each day with joy and overcome your worries.

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