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How do we place MANIPULATION and GASLIGHTING? What is MANIPULATION? This is an act of taking over someone in a clever or unscrupulous way. What is GASLIGHTING? This is a means of  psychologically MANIPULATING you into doubting your sanity. In other words,we can define GASLIGHTING as an act of psychologically taking over someone in an unscrupulous way into doubting their sanity. Now let's talk Gaslighting in interpersonal relationships is often developed or built on an existing power. Gaslighting in relationships is a situation where one person is so important to the other that they don't want to take chances of upsetting or loosing them.This can be found in a boss, friend,siblings and even parents. Gaslighting in romantic relationships or marriages happens when there is an unequal power and the target has given the gaslighter power and often their respect. And we would be looking at Gaslighting in romantic relationships and or marriages. Before we read on and for bet...

< Many times, I see people berating girls for the denigrative manner they tell off some of their admirers.... well, some of these babes can't help it even though many of them are just blowing air at brothers in order to catch trips and form levels. Truth is, some guys have no modicum of self-worth in them. I mean how do you explain giving someone 15 missed calls at a stretch when she's not owing you any money? How do you keep texting someone without end when she doesn't reply? How do you keep trailing someone like a pesky fly buzzing after a soiled bum? Beats me silly! Nigeria's 182m population has over half of this figure as people under 30 years according to Bloomberg, that's close to 90 million young people of which over 40m are arguably females. Talk about biting your tongue for bathing water when you're drowning in the Ocean. All these fine fine girls milling around on all these plenty plenty social media and streets and you're killing yourself ov...

I left here early 2019....I know y'all have lost all hopes in me. I still had my app till February 2020....My phone got damaged...got another and my memory card where the app was,got missing mysteriously( so many hidden stories to that but be assured you will read about it someday). I totally forgot how much I could write my pains, joys,fears,hopes,future...I totally forgot writing makes me happy.Instead,I was chasing a shadow. The first 3 months of 2020 was hell for me. Every of my thought was how to make another happy,I get out of bed forgetting myself and catering for another. Every of my steps was how to make things right not for myself but for another...I obviously never saw me as being enough for me. I was looking into another mirror to see myself,I broke my mirror,I got it shattered,I trashed my life,I wasn't living for myself. I was living in a cubicle,a circle.I was stagnant while I thought I was moving. I lost my inner peace but I didn't know...I left the visual w...