CHASE AND HEY!

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Many times, I see people berating girls for the denigrative manner they tell off some of their admirers.... well, some of these babes can't help it even though many of them are just blowing air at brothers in order to catch trips and form levels.

Truth is, some guys have no modicum of self-worth in them. I mean how do you explain giving someone 15 missed calls at a stretch when she's not owing you any money? How do you keep texting someone without end when she doesn't reply? How do you keep trailing someone like a pesky fly buzzing after a soiled bum? Beats me silly!

Nigeria's 182m population has over half of this figure as people under 30 years according to Bloomberg, that's close to 90 million young people of which over 40m are arguably females. Talk about biting your tongue for bathing water when you're drowning in the Ocean. All these fine fine girls milling around on all these plenty plenty social media and streets and you're killing yourself over one.

If she's doing shakara by prolonging the chase but wants you, you will know; unless you're a congenital idiot in which case you shouldn't really be hoping to date anyone.

Don't force her. You can't force matters of the heart. Don't beg her either, you will be handing her your balls to squeeze at will if you eventually get her to date you out of pity.

If she doesn't like you, move along! No hating. No belittling talk. No castigating her. No hanging around to see if she will change her mind.... you're just selling yourself cheap.

Hanging around and disturbing her smacks of desperation...and desperation never get any brother the cookies.

Always gauge yourself while chasing to make sure you're on track. If after your trial period, she doesn't call, move along for she's not into you and neither is she worth the efforts.

Trust me she will call you if she likes you and would want to give a try. Just ensure balance and reciprocrity.

Hey! In the process of chasing, keep calling yourself to order.



Comments

  1. Unknown24 April 2020 at 23:56

    Why give green light if you don't want to be chased?

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    1. EAGLE25 April 2020 at 00:17

      You probably missed the reason for this post.
      This is all about a man who's wanting a woman who can't tell when to keep the chase or stop because he doesn't know if she's interested or not.
      Thank you for your comment.

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    2. Unknown25 April 2020 at 05:10

      My point exactly dear, if as a lady u ain't interested y lead d guy on, sm ladies feel cool with demsef having guy chase after dem, so dere r times dat it's not d guyz fault if he keeps trying .

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  2. Whooligans25 April 2020 at 01:59

    Hmmmmm

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  3. Unknown25 April 2020 at 02:25

    This is what I do, once I get indication that my chasing is not welcome, I don't waste time.

    Even if she wants me and playing "hard to get" , I'll still have to stop the chase.

    If you want me , don't stress me.

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