TRAIN THEM

Some Sundays back in church.....I saw a young man walked into the church holding a handbag......Aww! I got interested in whom he is carrying the handbag for*Things don't happen around me without me noticing but I learnt to watch and learn rather than speak*.

It was his mothers', so romantic,I love it. .....Shows some kind of respect, a kind of special love from a son to his mother......No lady will see this and not wish the guy was hers.

Now, this is it......Imagine such a guy having a wife, imagine the cares. .....His mum has properly brought him up to respect women.I am not saying, it is necessary to carry your wife's handbag, I am saying, you should learn to  lend a helping hand.

You know a man who is properly brought up by the way he treats women around him or his wife.He already learnt how to cook, do the dishes, laundry, clean up the house....Some even knows how to get things from the market at a reasonable price.

Such a man would know what it takes for a woman to do the chores everyday...He knew he is supposed to help whenever he is less busy.Good men don't wear their wives out.

Mums, the training you give to us,don't you think the boys in the house are not left out of the training too?

You taught us so many things.....Please help us teach our men too.

They should be able to do every chores at home not because we want them to help us but because we want them to always appreciate whatever we do.It makes our chores easier.

Imagine a wife in the kitchen, doing the laundry, changing the baby's diapers, cleaning the refrigerator etc and the man is continously like"Honey, well-done, do you need a hand?"

Most times, she will say NO and keep doing it happily and sometimes, she'd say Yes because she wants you by her side.

Mums, you're the reason your son is treating his wife that way, be it postive or negative.......

When a lady is well trained, kudos is given to her mother.....We forgot about the men, we forgot to train them alongside the females in the house.

Let's make it a duty to train our males...They need home training.

When a man hits his wife, he lacks proper home training.

And yes such mother who birthed such a son should be ashamed that she failed to train her son.

You will account for it too...."Train up a child, not train up a DAUGHTER, in the way he should go,even when he is old, he will not depart from it....Prv 22:6"

When you fail to train your children,HE/SHE. ......You will be queried before man and before God.

Make it a point of duty to train your sons.....Be a positive impact to them, make their wives respect you more.......

Train that boy child now, he will grow up to be what you trained him for.