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Seek knowledge

You were lazy to gather knowledge about your universe. You were lazy to listen to those who gathered knowledge. You were lazy when they told you you could carve knowledge on stone tablet. You were lazy when scrolls were made so you could read. Still lazy when knowledge was stored in books, then PCs and phones. Now knowledge is stored and accessible everywhere you go. Why then are you so unwilling to learn? Man know thyself for thyself is ignorant of thyself. Don't just be a human whose brain isn't functioning well I am not asking you to be a walking encyclopedia. Just know something out of everything. You need to be up to date in every aspect of life. Don't be dead while  living. In whatever you do seek knowledge.

BUSINESS CORNER

#To Whom It Concern# Now, let me advise you what you must not forget: 1. There are businesses that you don't get outright profit, except on a time frame. 2. You have to be patient as you observe and see how the business turns-out. 3. You can't afford risk in any business, no matter how small. Be it known that the more the risk, the more the profit. Aside the above, its very important before you venture into any business, think of what your business will serve as solution. Only until then, you should try your hands in it. NB: If you think of money 1st, there is every possibility that your business will lack value which is key to staying successful and profitable on the business. The best way to locate and start a business is to understanding your: a. Passion b. People c. Environment Finally, i will only give you few businesses here that you can start with #100k, but trust me, its beyond theories here, as you would need one-one talk so as to guide you more. 1. Food S...

Don't just SLAY!

The prettiest thing have ever seen is a Holy Ghost girl.I can't imagine a lady without a prayer life. Imagine a woman that can't stay in prayers for 10mins but can chat 1 hour nonstop. ....It's not just your pretty face that's needed, but your pretty prayer life . It's funny how wayward guys get a good godly woman as wives, that's because they know the power that is in a praying woman. Don't just be an ordinary woman but desire to be a powerful praying woman. ....

Don't waste your time to waste your time.

I want to address some ladies If you are a lady or a slain queen/slay Queen and you are not doing anything. You just sit on Facebook uploading pictures, chatting with guys and you are above 25. Please know that time is running out. If you didn't go to school, it's not the end of the world. Colonel Sanders was 62 when he founded KFC that shook the world. Who is that guy wasting your life? What have you placed value on? If you don't place value on yourself, very soon that guy will dump you. The only way to know you value yourself is not by wearing the most expensive pancakes with the money that a guy gave to you after being damaged by him, it is by taking responsibility and being responsible. Here is the fact, guys have become wiser, they will not spend the rest of their lives with a liability. You are not doing anything, you have no skill. You say you are a slain queen, but with no wisdom.. Take a decision right now, go out there and learn a skill.. . Learn/Do somethi...

EMOTIONS

When we are able to experience love we are actually experiencing our own emotions through someone else.  Emotions which lie within us triggered by the thoughts of a loved one. It is therefore you who creates these emotions, you who are capable of feeling these emotions and only you who is able to experience your emotions.  The same applies for every other emotion and we are often reminded that no one can actually make us feel anything but what we allow ourselves to feel. So it is therefore a reflection of ourselves which we enjoy experiencing with someone else and in this lies the ultimate understanding of intimacy.  This is where our connection begins with ourselves and in turn with the other. Thus, when we say "I love you", we are actually telling someone that we love and enjoy experiencing our emotions when we are with that special someone. When we say to someone "I miss you" we are actually telling them,I miss experiencing a part of myself when you are in ...

YOU ARE REPLACEABLE

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The only bone in the body that can be replaced after being damaged is the RIBS. Biblically,Emotionally. ....The RIBS connotes a perfect partner, a God given spouse...... People forget that even if your spouse walked down from Heaven and you fail to treat him/her right, you will be replaced because when the RIBS are damaged, they can be REPLACED. You treat your spouse like you've gotten him/her, he/she can't go anywhere, God gave me this person and all you could think of is to neglect,abuse, never respect, never appreciative and do almost all the opposite sides of affections. Have seen some men compare their spouse to their exes, have seen some men compare the body size or structure of their spouse with that of a lady who just walked by, have seen some men tell their spouse how much they missed their ex simply because she failed in the aspect their ex could have handled well etc. Have seen some women compare their spouse to the husband next door, have seen some women compa...

Know your ovulation period

You do not know when you ovulate? Read this... The truth is that, there are a lot of women that do not know when they’re ovulating. They don’t know and never bothered to find out. They know every other thing about merriment but not their ovulation period. They know when they are expected to see blood during monthly cycle but are unaware of when they’re ovulating. This is why a lot of them often fall victim of unplanned pregnancy. The day a woman sees blood begins the first day of monthly cycle. This is expected to last for some days (usually up to seven days), during this period, the woman is presumed to be infertile. The blood seen is due to desquamated cells of granulosa that are shed from the walls of the uterus. Immediately after which ovulation takes place under the influence of hormones. During this period, the woman becomes fertile and the uterus is set for any incoming pregnancy, it lasts for more than ten days or less than two weeks. Following ovulation, a ...

TRAIN THEM

Some Sundays back in church.....I saw a young man walked into the church holding a handbag......Aww! I got interested in whom he is carrying the handbag for*Things don't happen around me without me noticing but I learnt to watch and learn rather than speak*. It was his mothers', so romantic,I love it. .....Shows some kind of respect, a kind of special love from a son to his mother......No lady will see this and not wish the guy was hers. Now, this is it......Imagine such a guy having a wife, imagine the cares. .....His mum has properly brought him up to respect women.I am not saying, it is necessary to carry your wife's handbag, I am saying, you should learn to  lend a helping hand. You know a man who is properly brought up by the way he treats women around him or his wife.He already learnt how to cook, do the dishes, laundry, clean up the house....Some even knows how to get things from the market at a reasonable price. Such a man would know what it takes for a woman to...

BE RESPONSIBLE

This are for my ladies Who is a woman?She isn't an image of boobs, long hair, vagina, beautiful lips, curvy hips etc.There is more to being a woman. What kind of woman are you? I am the kind of woman who is responsible for whatever happens in her home, be it positive or negative. I am the kind of woman who will always have a hidden plan B for the family. I am the kind of woman who will always place her home before God. I am the kind of woman who will fight hidden battles for her family. I am the kind of woman who will pay the children's school fees when my husband isn't capable yet. I am the kind of woman who will break down silently in the bathroom,kitchen and come out strong like nothing ever happened. I am the kind of woman who will never let her husband break down,I will instead. I am the kind of woman who will take responsibilities of "OUR" bedroom. I am the kind of woman who will always be there for her family. How can one go about this? It'...

Just in case

Rough day? Stressed out? Broken? Chattered? Lost? Depressed? Unloved? Bittered? In pains? Forgotten? Just in case you need someone to talk to, just in case you need a shoulder to cry upon, just in case, you need someone to cry with you, just in case of just in case. ....... Send me messages on my gmail account Kemilizzybeth@gmail.com I'm not promising a smooth journey but I promise a hand who will hold you till the end.

FRIENDSHIP

"He is my friend,I can't date him" "We are too close, I can't date her" "We've known too much of ourselves,we would use it to judge ourselves" Come off it....It is not lack of love that makes a relationship unstable but lack of FRIENDSHIP.The best person you can be in a relationship with is your friend. OK, I am not saying you should look for a random person,be friends with him/her and hope for a relationship.Not all friendship ends in a relationship. You have a female/male friend you feel so comfortable been with,you share in his/her joys, pains. .....You know it all,...you both click and it feels like you've got the best friend in the world.You so much cherish the friendship that you're quick to say sorry. ...Then what's holding you back when he ask if you can take the friendship further?and dude what's holding you back from asking if she would like you both to take the friendship further? Friendship is a relationship, i...

HOLD ON!

I don't know what you might be going through, I don't know what you've gone through, I don't know what your challenges are...... Family,love, job, society etc It all seems like no one cares It all seems like no one understands what is happening around you You feel everyone is blind to what you are passing through No love given No love gotten You feel your life is stagnant Nothing is going right The whole world seems shattered Anyways, enough of me saying all of these but yea, the truth is no one cares, WHY? They are probably facing some difficulties too, they are too busy trying to survive, they are too,searching for a way out, they'd love to care but couldn't. It's nobody's fault Stop the blames Stop hating on who didn't check on you Just stop it already What you are facing is probably a smaller version of what they're going through. Pray for them just as you pray for yourself Imagine if everyone prays for everyone......A quick...

So what?

Your past mistakes doesn't define you.....We all have made mistakes we ain't proud of, those mistakes will be the deepest secret one will ever keep. People grow, people change, people move.....C'mmn, you ain't stagnant. ....so, you'd move pass those mistakes. Is there anyone who has always been perfect all his/her life? OK, they're aware of your mistakes, it was in their presence, you grew up in the neighborhood.......So what? You know my past doesn't mean you don't have one.I am not just opportuned to know yours which I don't care to know about. Why getting yourself all worked up because the person who knew about your past just moved in close to you? Why bothered if he/she just walked pass you? Get yourself rebranded Be different from who you used to be Have self confidence Look straight into their eyes It's a New you Be ready to defend your past. Whosoever will stay after getting to know, will stay....and if they choose to leave.......

JUST BEWARE

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Beware of young looking guys with no wedding rings, they're married with two or more kids.They forgot the vow they made on the altar,they keep their family away from the ills of the society, they give them shelter, they curb them from knowing what is going on out there. To their wives, they are the best To their in-laws, they are well respected. And why am I saying this?I was almost a victim of going out with a married young man who has a teenage daughter and the wife was heavily pregnant as at then. I was single, it was 6months my 6years old relationship went down the drain, he moved on almost immediately,he was even expecting a child with her,No, don't feel sorry and he isn't a bad person...Whatever will be will be. I wasn't in a rush for a relationship though, I was still hurting,I kept on calling, I was wanting to settle for less.....I was working,I was diligent.....My colleagues could testify to my commitment. Suddenly,a young good looking guy close to my wor...

It must not sink!

Do you know your relationship/marriage is also a business?.....No I don't mean, it's a game where you become selfish and all you wanted from it is just the goodies. Every successful business today had gone through one or two storms, but one thing made it successful. .... DETERMINATION.In the face of determination, storms are like stepping stones, you get used to it,it becomes part of you. But note, you can't do it all alone, you need someone who is as strong as you or if not stronger than you to keep it going when you're falling apart.So is a relationship,when there's a partner who shares in your dreams, visions.....who understands this business called relationship has to stand the test of time, storms that could make one shaken then be assured your business is in its way to be profitable. Being in a relationship means putting a whole lot of faith in someone who was, at one point, a total stranger to you. It’s all a bit terrifying when you really think about it......

Achiever

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***Life is too short to play small. I will go big and benefit the world. ***I don't know what tomorrow holds. But I will seize the moment. For the sake of the day that comes after tomorrow, I will make today count. ***I am obsessed with my mission; it's my instrument of service.This way I see my work as a ministry for the benefit of humanity. ***The world seem to be full of problems and confusion. I pledge to reduce the nauseating statistics. Therefore, I will be a solution provider and not part of the problems to be solved. ***Not all dreams I dream will be mine, but in time new dreams will fill my heart. ***I won’t shatter at grief or sorrow since they are sent to me by divine mercy for my  perfecting. ***I am a co-Creator of the Universe - I am that powerful. All the physical magnificence I experience is an experience of what goes on inside. I am an artist with a soul. I am aware. ***I am a unique, sophisticated spiritual being, living in the power of love with ...